"Unfortunately for me, all the women I had relationships with, were very popular.."Sammie Okoposo

Sammie Okopso is not new to the Nigerian entertainment scene.The Delta state award winning gospel gospel musician has performed on stages around the world alongside some of the best Gospel voices. Last year, he ditched his bachelor status when he tied the knot.In this interesting interview for Vanguard, he gives a deeper insight into his career , dating powerful women and why he married late.


Ajegunle Champ
You were quite notorious with the women, why was that and what did these women see in you?
Unfortunately for me, all the women I had relationships with, were very popular  and powerful women way ahead of me in the entertainment industry. I once dated a Miss Nigeria, a very popular actress and a few others. What made me popular was like a mystery. When people wanted to know who I was and how I got to date those women, they started digging and that was how I became relevant. It was not the awards I received that brought me fame, it was the ladies I was connected to.


Was it something you planned or was it deliberate?
No, it was not planned. My band was jamming at Pintos then and the owner Mr Onabolu was one of the organizers of the Miss Nigeria pageant then. As part of the package, the winner of the Miss Nigeria was scheduled  to pay a courtesy call on Pintos which was his joint. She had a fantastic voice and someone mentioned she should try singing with my band and that was how we met. We just struck  a chord, got very friendly and that was where it started from.


Your affairs with women made you notorious and you  say it also helped you build your career, right?


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Of course it did. Like I said, everything works together for good. I tell people that in the midst of all the publicity be it negative and positive, it would eventually make your name known but you have to be able to balance the situation because sometimes, you might be at the wrong place at the wrong time, sometimes you can be misrepresented and sometimes it could be your own doing.

The kind of fame you got at that point, didn’t worry you?
I came from a good Christian home and my parents were not happy hearing those things back home in Delta.  Most of the time they get filtered information from here. People tell them all sort of  stories and they were all amplified.
My family was a very quiet and happy one. I brought my surname out. They were very unhappy when rumours filtered in from Lagos down to Delta about me. It was difficult for them to comprehend what was happening because they did not understand much about the entertainment industry.

Could that have contributed to your getting married very late in life?
I have been single for a very long time. I had to rule out getting married  in a hurry because I saw too many things happen in the industry. And as I was growing up, I said to myself that as crazy as the industry is, I would have a sweet and happy home. I didn’t want to have a crazy home and belong to a crazy profession. I saw people who went into things they should not have gone into and all of that made me to see things in a more realistic state and calmed down.


What kind of things did you see?
People went into relationships especially marriages and before the blink of an eye, it was shattered. It discouraged me so much that I couldn’t bear seeing myself doing the same thing. I needed to be more careful and so I asked questions. Marriage is not just a fashion that comes and then goes out of style, it is a lifetime agreement, so I decided to discard all forms of pressure.


Talking about your child now, was the baby expected?
Well, what I would say is the baby came and we had to deal with that fact.

How did you react to the news?
I was shocked because that was the last thing on my mind then but I had to brace myself and accept it. I was barely able to find my feet at that time but the good thing is that the baby came and is now a blessing to me. I always say thumbs up to Gloria and her family because the early stages of the life of my daughter was in the hands of her mother and her family. If it were up to me, I had nothing to offer and till tomorrow, if not for who she is, I wonder what would have happened to the lady.

Was there no pressure from her?
Not at all, I must confess it is not easy to  find someone with a heart as good as that. I did not get any kind of pressure from her financially or emotionally. She knew the level I was on and how to adapt to it.


I wonder why she chose you when it was obvious you had nothing to offer…?
Those are the kind of questions you don’t have answers to. The heart has a mind of its own. I’m thankful to my daughter. She is a wonderful and intelligent, sweet young girl. I must also add that I was never for one day denied access to my daughter by her mother or  members of her family.


Currently what is the relationship like between you, your daughter and your new family?
It is a fantastic one. Gloria is not a troublesome person. She’s exposed, and comes from a good home.


Did you try to make thing work out between the two of you?
I’m not going to say I tried or not. We had to be civil for the sake of the child and allow her to grow. My daughter was at my wedding.


I was going to that and how you met your wife…?

I met my wife in the United Kingdom and she still lives there. I met her while on one of my trips. Her whole family came to watch my show and when I was signing autographs on my CD’s, they came to buy. It took just one glance and I yearned to meet her again. I said a little prayer to God that if we were supposed to meet, it should be soon. 

I went back to my hotel to prepare to leave the U.K, when I got a call from a friend who wanted to take me out.We went for an exhibition which happened to be organised by my wife’s sister. And to my surprise, she walked in and we got chatting, She refused to give me her contact and finally I went back to Nigeria without getting it. That got me more interested.But as God would have it, that whole period, I was getting more invitations to perform mostly in the U.K. That gave me more opportunity to interact with her and after some serious chatting, I finally got her number and we were able to communicate easily. I once mentioned to her that the first time I saw her, she looked like the woman I was to marry and she said ‘well, we’ll see about that. We have been married for two years now and I’m happy with it.

Is it true that you have something to do with an American company?
Yes. The company is called TMG. My new album by the way is going to be released on the 3rd of August and its currently taking all my time now. The title of the album is “The Statement.’’ And it is coming out six years after my last album No More Drama which was released in 2006. And since then, I have only released singles just for promotional purposes.

How many singles have you released since so far?Just about six singles, but the album would have about 26 tracks. Different inspirations, attitudes and  vibes would be in that album. There would be something for everybody regardless of who you are. TMG records signed me up for international release. They are waiting for the unveiling of the new album. And they would be in charge of the distribution and marketing in America and the Caribbeans.

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